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Posted on April 26, 2018

TRAILER ALERT!!! Sneak peek into Channel 4’s Genderquake!!!

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As you know from a recent blog, I’ll be featuring in a two-part Channel 4 documentary called Genderquake.

The trailer for this ground-breaking series is finally out and I’m so excited to be able to share it with you guys!

If you happen to see it on the telly box in the next few days, be sure to tag me on Instagram or Twitter – in the meantime, grab yourself a cuppa for a taste of what you’ll be getting on May 7th!!! 😉

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Announcement: Genderquake hits the screens next month!!!
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The cat is finally out of the bag.... I've been sitting on this for the good part of seven months at this stage and now that I've attended the private screening for this upcoming series, I can finally spill the beans!!! Towards the end of last year, I participated in…
New pride flag: divisive or inclusive?
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I think it's a really good idea, as inclusive as you can be! Because you wanna represent everybody and pride is all about including people and making people be happy with themselves I recently discovered that a new pride flag was launched in Philadelphia in an attempt to fight racism…
Walk of shame or stride of pride? how these 10 men define the word ‘slut’
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SLUT. WHORE. TRAMP. SLAG. These are cheap digs women have used to tear each other down, often in an attempt to make themselves feel more valuable. These are words that boys have unfairly labelled girls after being rejected by a pursued love interest. The insult ‘slut’ and other variations of its kind,…
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Below is a trailer for Genderquake, the two-part Channel 4 documentary I feature in on the 7th May 2018. If you want to read more about my television debut, have a look here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Dsg1uetseY Twitter Facebook Instagram
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"TERFs are trash!"| Twitter's reaction to Genderquake
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First and foremost, a massive thank you to everyone who tuned in to Genderquake this time last week. I am still so overwhelmed by the overall reaction to my contribution on the show! As expected, there was a bit of name calling. One insult in particular is still very new to…
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Posted on April 20, 2018

Announcement: Genderquake hits the screens next month!!!

Sexuality

Genderquake cast Photo credit: Channel 4

The cat is finally out of the bag….

I’ve been sitting on this for the good part of seven months at this stage and now that I’ve attended the private screening for this upcoming series, I can finally spill the beans!!!

Towards the end of last year, I participated in a two-part Channel 4 documentary called Genderquake. Filming for this groundbreaking series involved cohabiting with ten strangers for a full week to have spirited debates around gender, sexuality and everything in between!

Although I was a bit apprehensive about partaking in the programme initially, I have to say, I am proud of my contribution on the show. I met some truly wonderful people who challenged my ideologies in ways that continue to intrigue me today.

I look forward to seeing how it pans out for us all and I hope you guys tune in next month 🙂

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Genderquake airs on May 7th at 9PM on Channel 4

A massive thank you to Hamish Fergusson, Nick Hornby, Tina Flintoff, Mikey Trotter, Demi Doyle, and everyone at Optomen involved in the production of this show! xx

Do men age better than women?
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TimeHop: A nifty Facebook feature designed to depress individuals who have surpassed the prime of their beauty (for those of you wondering). In my early twenties (when I still had my looks going for me), I used to take pride in the fact that I was never enticed by the…
Today is International Women's Day...but what does being a woman mean in 2018?
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Disclaimer: This blog post is referring to my own subjective experience of being a cis woman and my dealings with cis men. It is in no way to refer to trans or non binary people, I support them in their journeys and I would never want for this blog post to denounce…
New pride flag: divisive or inclusive?
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I think it's a really good idea, as inclusive as you can be! Because you wanna represent everybody and pride is all about including people and making people be happy with themselves I recently discovered that a new pride flag was launched in Philadelphia in an attempt to fight racism…
5 reasons I received a Google alert for my name in 2018
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I never in a million years would have thought that my blogging achievements in twenty eighteen could ever amount to half of the accomplishments I had with Enhance What's Yours in 2017. In fact, I spent the early days of twenty eighteen (excuse the overuse of this millenial slang), crippled with…
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Below is a trailer for Genderquake, the two-part Channel 4 documentary I feature in on the 7th May 2018. If you want to read more about my television debut, have a look here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Dsg1uetseY Twitter Facebook Instagram
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Posted on November 22, 2017

Why men cheat VS why women cheat

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While it’s never fair to paint every man or woman with the same brush, a recent survey suggests that maybe it is something we should start considering when it comes to matters of cheating. The survey highlights the differences in how and why men and women cheat and the findings are quite alarming – to say the least!

Do you think the reasons behind why people cheat ultimately come down to each individual or does it have a lot more to do with a person’s gender than we’d like to admit? Watch my recent video as I discuss the mind-blowing findings of this survey, be sure to watch the full thing 🙂

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Uncovered: Can cheating ever be justified?
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Before you start attacking me or accusing me of oppressing female sexuality again, just hear me out for a second here. I re-watched the first Sex and the City film the other night and one of the scenes got me thinking about a topic I’ve been meaning to write about:…
Should you stay friends with an ex?
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It takes a lot of strength to remain friends with an ex romantic partner, especially when the decision to break up was one-sided. Staying friends with an ex is a challenge that not everyone would be willing to take in situations like this. But what about when both parties decide…
5 reasons he might call you a psycho
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https://youtu.be/G0ajT6aJWuk Ladies, if you’ve ever been called a psycho by a man then I’m sure you’ll resonate with my latest YouTube video. I’ve explored some of the reasons why men call women psychos. I hope you enjoy watching it as much as I enjoyed putting it together for you guys,…
5 reasons I received a Google alert for my name in 2018
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I never in a million years would have thought that my blogging achievements in twenty eighteen could ever amount to half of the accomplishments I had with Enhance What's Yours in 2017. In fact, I spent the early days of twenty eighteen (excuse the overuse of this millenial slang), crippled with…
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Uncovered: the exception VS the rule
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He’s Just Not That Into You has always ranked quite highly on my list of favourite romantic comedies. If I were super religious, I’d treat it as the Holy Bible. I’d recite every single word said by Justin Long’s character (I’ll get into that later) and follow his most valuable…
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Posted on June 26, 2017

New pride flag: divisive or inclusive?

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I think it’s a really good idea, as inclusive as you can be! Because you wanna represent everybody and pride is all about including people and making people be happy with themselves

I recently discovered that a new pride flag was launched in Philadelphia in an attempt to fight racism and recognise LGBT people of colour. As it stands, the universal rainbow flag has six colours, each having their own separate meaning: life (red), healing (orange), sunlight (yellow), nature (green), serenity (blue) and spirit (violet).

In the redesigned rainbow flag, the colours black and brown have been added to include people of colour who feel they are under-represented in the gay community. Personally, I would have thought that the colour red (symbolising life) represented people in the LGBT community of all backgrounds and ethnicities especially since the original colours on the flag do not signify race.

However, I am a straight black woman so I don’t really think it’s my place to comment on any modifications to a flag that isn’t mine. So the curious cat in me took it upon herself to ask people of the LGBTQ+ community in Dublin what their thoughts are on this variation of the gay pride flag.

Here are some of the responses….

It has nothing to do with racial identity at all

I’m really iffy on it

Whatever flag you want is whatever flag you use

Pride is for everyone, it’s not race exclusive

I think it’s an absolutely positive development

I don’t think sexuality is about race, that’s a separate issue

Mainly the LGBT movement is about sexuality and freedom

Have you any thoughts on this variation of the rainbow flag? Comment below or tweet me @FilomenaKaguako 🙂

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50 shades of kinky vs 50 shades of gay: the results are in!!!
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About a week ago, I made my second appearance on the Chris & Ciara show. In preparation for the segment, I bombarded my Facebook friends with a survey that I created called 50 shades of kinky VS fifty shades of gay. Disclaimer: less judging and more reading please? Thank you! The survey…
Walk of shame or stride of pride? how these 10 men define the word ‘slut’
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SLUT. WHORE. TRAMP. SLAG. These are cheap digs women have used to tear each other down, often in an attempt to make themselves feel more valuable. These are words that boys have unfairly labelled girls after being rejected by a pursued love interest. The insult ‘slut’ and other variations of its kind,…
Uncovered: Body count matters
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There are a few ways I could have written this article. The first, would have been to touch the topic on the surface and conclude that people who worry about body count (the number of sexual partners a person has) are usually from a narrow-minded culture who don’t see women…