About a week ago, I made my second appearance on the Chris & Ciara show. In preparation for the segment, I bombarded my Facebook friends with a survey that I created called 50 shades of kinky VS fifty shades of gay.
Disclaimer: less judging and more reading please? Thank you!
The survey was inspired by my most recent YouTube video at the time, where I spoke about a conversation I had with a good friend of mine about pegging and whether we thought it was a homosexual act or not.
I questioned young men and women between the ages of 18 – 34 hoping to get the general consensus on whether or not a woman penetrating a man anally using a strap-on was deemed a homosexual act.
I’m sure it won’t come as a surprise to some of you that there was a handful of people who wanted zero part of it! They were under the impression that strap-on wearing was a hobby and they’ve now labelled me as a pegging fiend – quite the achievement for someone who’s never owned a toy!
But for those who did partake – thank you! I got some amount of giggles out of it. Your answers were short, honest and to the point!
So without further ado, here are the final results… it’s time to let the people speak!
Q. 1 What is your gender?
- 72% Female
- 28% Male
Q.2 What is your age?
- 25% between 18 – 24
- 64% between 25 – 34
- 11% between 35 – 44
Q.3 What is your sexual orientation?
- 88% Heterosexual
- 2% Homosexual
- 9% Bisexual
- 1% Other
Q. 4 Please describe your race
- 25% Black
- 70% White
- 5% Other
Q.5 In your opinion have erotic practices and role play become more mainstream since the launch of 50 Shades of Grey?
- 43% Yes
- 22% No
- 35% Not Sure
Q. 6 Would you consider engaging in erotic sexual activity such as the use of sex toys in the bedroom?
- 70% Yes
- 2% No
- 26% Maybe
- 2% Never
Q. 7 “If a straight man wants a strap-on to be used on him, he is a closeted gay or has homosexual tendencies?” True/False?
- 45% True
- 55% False
Q. 8 “If a straight woman uses a strap on dildo on a man she is a closeted gay or has homosexual tendencies?” True/False?
- 18% True
- 82% False
Q. 9 What are your thoughts on women using a strap-on dildo on a straight man?
In one word it’s dominating
It’s just wrong!
And on the flip side…..
Nothing wrong with it if both parties are consenting
If he likes it each to their own, although it would make me question him a little
I’d try anything once. No harm if he’s keen for it. Why not give it a shot. Would be fund to see what it feels like to be the one with a penis for once too
I wouldn’t assume he was gay. But I would bring the question up just in case. I don’t view men that enjoy anal penetration as gay, I just think it’s a sexual act they enjoy!
As these answers (along with the others) would suggest, the participants were divided in their opinion.
However, when asked whether a straight man who wanted a strap-on to be used on him was a closeted gay or had homosexual tendencies, 55% said no – more than half of the people who took this survey did not consider pegging a homosexual act!
Have we as a society become more progressive in our views regarding sexuality, or would the survey have generated different results had more men taken part?
Afterall, 72% who took this survey were female and only 28% were male…..I guess that’s something to think about!
Hope you enjoyed this post and don’t forget to watch my YouTube video on this topic! For those of you who missed the segment on Chris & Ciara (Tuesday 21st March), you should be able to find it on the RTE Radio Player!
Happy pegging guys and gals!
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